Tuesday, 25 August 2015

How to make a woman fall in love with you? Or can you?

The best way to approach a woman you love is to be yourself, be true to your core values and love her truly for what she is. If she is wise enough to understand your worth she will inevitably fall in love with 'Who you really are'.

Beyond being YOURSELF there are certain things you can practice to be the best person of her life:

  1. Understanding her (with all her complexities) 
  2.  Giving her the 'space' where she feels supported & cared 
  3. Listening without interrupting and without jumping to conclusions 
  4.  If at all you are angry at something that she has done, then you need to express it against that specific action of hers and not against 'herself' as a person, as this will hurt immensely and will give her a strong reason to re-think if she can really "be with you forever" 
  5. Whenever she is talking something important, pay 100% undivided attention to her
  6. If you have understood her basic psyche you will reach a stage where even if she wears a fake smile, you will immediately know the difference. Whenever that happens, make sure you exhibit your concern and ask her if she is upset over anything and if turns out to be the case then you need to wear you 'Good Listener' cap and allow her to empty her heart out 

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