Wednesday, 30 September 2015

What are the secrets of being likable?


The following comes to my mind when I think of developing Likability:
  1. Being a good listener
  2. Asking questions to show your interest about the matter they are sharing with you
  3. Smiling 
  4. Being helpful (to the best of your ability but without sacrificing your own progress) whenever you can 
  5. Allowing them the space to be comfortable in your presence, this can be done when you do not get too judgemental about them 
  6. Sense of humor
  7. Being actively available on the mobile phone and if you miss their call (due to an important task at hand) make sure to at least message them and inform them that you will get back shortly
  8. Be away from narcissistic characteristics
  9. Do not indulge in talking about your own troubles for the majority of the time, maintain the balance by listening to their issues and share your problems that you feel like sharing only once they are done listing their grievances of life
  10. Look decent, smell good and maintain your hygiene

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